The Riddle

Everyone knows that “Perfection” is best paired to the word “Impossibility”. Nobody is perfect (Well, except God of course), we already made our shares of mistakes in life and have been wrong about a lot of things. All ups and downs in our damn life are the handiworks of God. God balances our life by giving us enough blessings to keep us happy, enough burdens to keep us humble and enough hardships to make us strong. God Almighty has a purpose why He made us different from each other. What I am trying to tell is that we are not heavenly perfect; we are just humans with lots of “defects.

There are things that we hate most about the traits of our friends, classmates and siblings because simply we are far from perfection. In this “judgmental opinion” of mine, I will share you my perceptions about the most common defects of both sexes.

The problem with women is that they are too emotional. They easily cry even though the problem is not worth their tears. They easily cry when they lost their not-so-expensive ball pens (perhaps G-Tech) or got scolded by their teachers even though it is a joke only. They are easily affected by outside operations or influences. I am not saying that crying is a weakness, I am portraying here that “crying does not help you solve the problem, it only adds up to your miseries.” (Crying can make your eyes bulging and red which can trigger your peers to tease you rather than to comfort you.) I know that crying is everybody’s best option to do especially in times of depression, but the most effective remedy for your problem is to face it and accept whole-heartedly that you are not perfect at all.

I know that many will disagree with my opinion (especially girls), but that is the truth. They say crying is just normal, but too much of it is otherwise. (Some people would even cry just to evade their problems which are nonsense.) Frankly, crying is not one of my best solutions to my dreadful problems.

In relation to the word crying, some women cry (and even freak out in front of many people) because of either sudden break-ups or they saw their quixotic boyfriends with other women (who they think are better than them). I know that some women are gullible and foolish when it comes to love, but boys must not take advantage of it. The problem with men is that they are unloyal and liars. I think it is the nature of men to be liars when it comes to love (Of course not all men). My loquacious friend said that LIAR means Love in a Relationship, but I doubt him of course. They say women are the kryptonites of men, but that was a long time ago. I am a born liar too; I broke the hearts of some girls. Because of this “natural ability” of men, there came an antidote named “Karma”. One thing I had learned, never ever lie again to a relationship.

You see, our lives are like riddles that only God can answer.